Thursday, 30 April 2015

In Penang Island

Actually this story is on April 30 2015. As my promised to my very best friend to take him to Lam Wah Ee Hospital in Penang for consultation regarding his illness.

.. I took leave for 2 days Thursday and Friday. I've told him before that i'll reach Ipoh around 8.00 am - 9.00 am. But on the present day i only reached Ipoh to fetch him at 10.00 am because i need to settle something important at home in Taiping.

Once I reached there he and his parents still do the preparation and packing the things that need to bring together. I help them to make sure nothings left especially the medicines.

We depart from Ipoh around 10.45 am and straight away drove to Penang it takes almost 2 1/2 hours. Our journey to Penang goes smoothly.

But After we passed by Penang second Bridge i started being confused.. It is because i am not familiar to Penang Island. So i really need someone to guide me to the apartment that we booked. The apartment name is 1 World Apartment.

He knows that i am not familiar with Penang roads. He then started guide me to follow his instruction weather to the left or right. But in the same time his mother keep interrupted and give another opinion ha ha ha.... until we met one junction. I heard that he asked me to go straight but on the junction he scold me very loud to take left.. I'm quite shocked but still can maintain and control my emotion. I can see on his face. He look very tired and very sick. Only Allah knows how it feels.

They decided to find a restaurant first to have a lunch. I am forgot the name of the restaurant..Quite confusing the road to that restaurant and the instruction given also consider as incorrect. Actually on his condition he not really can identify the road to the restaurant and to make everybody calm i have decided to use the GPS using my hand phone. I afraid if my gps not accurate because it is depend on the network.

So i stop my car for a while and set up my GPS. Then we just followed the instruction and finally we found the restaurant. We eat Rojak Cucur. Ha ha i am totally starving because i hsve skip my breakfast because on rushed.

So ... At the restaurant we met his brother there and then we decided to sent his parents to the apartment first than we go to Lam Wah Ee. Actually my friends difficult to walk because his leg swollen. It is because his liver not functioning. So every times he want to step out from the car .. I need to help him to lift up his leg one by one and placed his leg properly before he can stand up. And i must hold his armed pit for him to push up his body. Every step have to do it carefully because if  not it will hurt him. Both legs and his stomach are swollen. Any heavy shake will cause him painful.

So then i followed his brother drove to the apartment. After settled at the apartment I and my friend straight away to the hospital. Reached the hospital we parked the car and that time quite heavy raining. So lucky in my car i spared an umbrella. Because of his condition i go and take the wheelchair. Easier for him to go to the outpatient clinic which is in the 1st floor. After registered i took him to the 1st floor and waiting for calling. Then we go to see the doctor. We both ask all the procedure that can we do which can make him better. After a quite long discussion the Doctor said that nothing can do. He really wanted to know if he still got hope. But the answer is no... He looked very sad. He looked very frustrated . He ask the Doctor if like that... he want the doctor to help him reduce the swollen on his stomach and his leg to make his movement easier and can reduce his pain. He really want to do it and ask the about the cost. The doctor told him if he want to do it they can do but the implication for the procedure is dangerous which can cause him coma . Then the doctor give us 30 minutes to discuss. So i pull his wheelchair outside and we sit at one of the corner in the first floor. I sit in front of him and hold his hand. On the discussion we discussed all the possibility if  he go through the procedure. I am crying within the discussion but try to cover it from other people to see. The end of the discussion he make a decision that he wont do it. So we go back to the doctor and told him about what he decided to. So the doctor wrote a letter for him to refer to Ipoh GH and wrote a prescription for medicine. After that i pull his wheelchair outside and i see the doctor alone. The doctor personally told me he only have 6 months life or less... Suddenly i drop my tears in front of the doctor and nurse. The Doctor said he can see how closed we are from the way i treat him..

After that i took him to the pharmacy and then going back to the apartment. The parking quite far from the elevator so its difficult for him to walk to the elevator. I hold his arm and walk slowly to the elevator.

The apartment is in the 25th floor. Once we reached there he get a rest and sleep. And i am quite surprise that his friend that he told me before also there together with her 3 children's. I make sure that he is comfortable.. I put a small sofa in front of him and pull up his leg on the sofa to reduce the swollen and his friend take a comforter for him because he felt very cold. After everything in order i go to the bedroom for a bath and solat.

After maghrib his friend said want to buy dinner for him and his parents. But his mother ask her to buy for me too.. If the person it self not offered to me better i am refuse and not her duty to serve me ... Am i right... So i decided to go downstairs find my dinner on my own. Once finished i return to the apartment but...his friend still not comeback . I feel very pity of him and his parent. If i know earlier better i bought the dinner for them because they look very starving. After an hour than she came back. 

Once she reached.. I walk to the room and let them having the dinner. While solat some one nocked the door ..for sure i just ignore and try to concentrate on what i am doing that time. After finished..again someone nocked the door told that my friend want to see me. I go and get him and ask him why. He told me he want to go out and want me to joint him together with his friend. So i drove the car and they guide me to  padang kota... I left them in the car.. My friend can only lay down on the front seat and his friend at the back seat. I walk around and watch the night view of Padang Kota..so beautiful the scenery of lights... After 30 minutes suddenly they drove my car near to me and we sit together i take him out from the car as his wish. So we sit and discuss about many thing. He look happy for a while. We stay there untill 2 o'clock in the morning we buy a drink nescafe ice his favourites and 2 milo ice.

Then we drove back to the apartment... I left both of them at the lobby and i find the parking. After I parked my  car i go to the apartment and his mother told me that he is in the room and ask me to sleep with him in the same room.

So once i enter the room i saw him sit on the bed... And look very tired. I help him to wash him self. I took him to the toilet. And take him back to the bed... Help him to lay down on the bed pull up his leg upper on the pillow. Put on comforter for him... Heating his leg using my hand... Until he sleep. After that i do a solat hajat and recite Yassin... After finished then i sleep. That night i sleep on the carpet because easier for me to wake up in the morning because i get sleep quite late at 3.30 am.

At 5.50 am i heard my friend .. I saw him. He try to stand up to go to toilet... So i wake up too and at the same time i listened Azan Subuh. I help him first back to bed. He wanted to lay down. That time suddenly we cried together seems like we know that is last. We see each other and hug like a brothers saying goodbye.

After that i go to the bath room. Taking bath and performed Subuh and again recite Yassin. After finished i go downstairs find breakfast for all of us. While breakfast we discuss whether his parents wanted to follow me or not because i have to go back to Taiping i have promised my wife i will stay there only for one day. He still want to stay there with his friend and planned to go to Padang Besar.

So his parent decided to follow me. Around 9.30 am we depart from Penang to Ipoh because i need to sent back his  parents first then i can turn back to Taiping. That day got many cars in the highway all the RnR full of cars. So we cannot stop. And many times we have to slow down the car because of the traffic jammed. It is because that day is a labor day and it is a public holiday for Malaysia. We reached his parents house at 1.30 pm. I help them to take all the things inside then i straight away drove my car to Taiping. I reached home around 5.00 pm because of the traffic jammed. Good bye Penang.... I had  a fever since i came back from Penang and untill now i still had a cough.

So that all the stories about the Penang Island memories. I say sorry to him because i cannot wait there together. But no problem his friend  can take care of him.

As his very best friend i am satisfied because i can serve him.. give him the happiness even though it is only for one day. I pray to Allah bless his soul and keep his soul among the pious moslem. He meant so much to me as a best friend.

In Memories my beloved friend MKMA
Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Monday, 27 April 2015

New Cat In The Family

As the topic...i just get a new cat. Last when i reached home at 10.30 pm my friend called me said that he wanted to come to my house.

As a friend for sure i not refused. I ask him why because sounds like something important but he did not say any words and not answer my question. 15 minutes later he arrived. He take out from his car a cage together with a cat. Ha ha ha.

I refused to accept the cat. But he keep forcing me to accept because he want me to keep it. What???? I love cats but ill rather to take care a feral cats than a beautiful pat cat. It is because feral cats more survival and independent. They know how to survive and how to take care their own such as going out for pee n poop play around and come home for meals and sleep. Once a while they need our intention... But not every times...

So about this cat..since my friend want me to have it..so i will try my best to take care of him.. Hopefully he will be healthy with me...

Welcome to our family....as usual i am the one who will do everything... My children's...mmm they love to play but not to care...

Saturday, 25 April 2015

NEXT STORY

After we finished at the late feast. Our programme is to go to my mother in law house which is in Kg Anak Kurau Batu Kurau...  My wife want to sent something to her sister and also she want to pay for her "duit kutu" (what is it in English yea...). But... Suddenly our programme changed .. My wife get a call from Sen Heng Electronic Shop that they want to sent the washing Dryer Machine to our house within 2 hours.. Mmm.. After we discussed.. We decided to go home straight away.

I drove my car back home.. Reached home we waiting for the despatch. While waiting for the despatch i went for baths n solat Zohor. After performed my solat i went out from my room to see the technician do the dryer installation . They teach us how the thing function. Done that part

After everything settled. I prepared my self for travelling to  Ipoh visit my best friend. I reached there around 4.40 pm. My friend went out with his mother n brother in law  for his medical purpose.

I wait until they returned. Once they reached home  my friend request to go to the restaurant for eating out. Mmm everybody agreed because of him even though his mother n his brother in law look so tired. They invited me to join them. I refused to but they still ask me.. For not disappoint them i am followed.

I help my friend to step down from the car. Quite difficult for him because of his condition. His leg had swollen. So it is hard for him to  lift his leg. But have to do it slowly with help.

After we finished their meal. All of us going back home. So i wait for a while and chat with his brother in law and his mother. After half n hour i told them that i have to leave. Around 7 pm i leave the house to go back to Taiping.

I am praying that he will be healed and the meantime that he will given the encouragement and comfort need. InsyaAllah.

Friday, 24 April 2015

Unknown SMS

Today I've got an invitation for late feast. Invitation through the sms. Actually I'm not sure from whom because only the number appeared.   But after my wife do the confirmation then i know it is from my auntie.

So now all of us prepared to go to Batu Kurau my hometown for the late fest invitation.



My Son story

1.08 am...mmm why I'm still here ha ha. Actually i just finished altered my son Baju Melayu trousers. He asked my help to alter it because tomorrow his going to wear it for his nasyid performance at his school.

Its not easy but ill try to do it and I'm done. His teacher rent the Baju Melayu for their Nasyid group. The trouser is to big for him so need to alter. Easier to alter jeans or slack compare to Baju Melayu trousers mmm i think it is because of the material.

After i am done...the next step is to iron the Baju Melayu. Lucky i have steam iron...easier. Everythings done....feel sleepy now...morning......have a  nice sleep...sleep well...

Today's Story

Today after Maghrib i went to CIMB Bank to make a payment for UTP application process fees. Its only RM 30/- . I need to keep the payment slip and give it to UTP during the Educamp this Sunday.

Now I have completed all the documents required. My daughter Sya look very nervous this few days. Maybe she stressed for the Educamp programme which is the first time Interview experience for her.

Hopefully she can do the best. Good luck my dear...

Thursday, 23 April 2015

My Best Friend Ever

Love to share a story about my hundred percent best friend ever.  In our life we can get many friends but not a best friend.
He really a good friend of me. We share  many things together especially about our life story no matter its important or not...even though its a good news or a bad news. We never hide even a small things that happened in our life. We always advice n be a good listener to each other. If i feel the pain he also feel it and if i feel the happiness he also get the same feelings.
Now i feel very sad because he is sad..i feel very pain full because he is. i only can watch but his the one who have to face if. For the first time as his friend i really cant feel what is the real feeling of him. I also don't know how pain he is now.
I pray to Allah for his healthy..I pray to Allah for his happiness..I pray to Allah for his fast recover. Very bad news that my best friend had a liver cancer n cause him  jaundice.  Now his eyes look yellow n his stomach swollen .
I feel pity of him. He look tired n unhappy to his condition. I ask him always to remember Allah keep zikrullah. Pray to Allah. Don't forget to solat in what ever condition as long as he can. Our life is belong to Allah. From Allah we came and to Allah we will return.
Believe that nothing possible if Allah wills. Just keep praying. Every single molecule in our body is created by Him. Also must understand, nothings happened without Allah blessed. Try to accept the fate from Allah but in the same time don't give up. Always endeavour. Allah love people who's endeavour for a goodness. Always be thanks full to Allah. Don't be sad because of one thing and better be great full because of many things...
My dear best friend. U are the best friend  ever in my life. I will always pray for u. May Allah bless us and always place us among the pious people. InsyaAllah

Tawaran OUM

Assalamualaikum ok hari nak cerita sikit apa keputusan yang saya dah buat dalam hidup saya diusia 42 tahun ni.

Dalam saya sibuk melayari internet berkaitan pemilihan IPTS dan IPTA untuk anak aku Sya....tetiba feel like want to search something for my own he he...suddenly i go through OUM website. Quite interesting....The offer n programme for part time study especially for those who were busy with their work and family for married.

After quite sometime I serve the OUM website i really fall in love to one the programme offered which is Bachelor Of Islamic Study (Islamic Management) Since i am interested to the programme i try to search what subjects they offer to complete the programme..mmmm really interesting...its all related to our Islamic study. For me this is the best opportunities to learn more about our religious in proper way and the same time I can get a scroll if Allah wills.

So without wasting my time i try to apply  and submit the online application. Yea..they replied that my qualification fulfill all the requirement needed for joining the course.

So the next step is.. i need to go to the nearest OUM Learning Center for registration. My family very supportive especially my beloved wife..even though i never attend any formal class for Islamic study, I pray to Allah. Hopefully everything will become easy n smooth without any obstruction. My intention is not to the degree but it is more to the knowledge's that i will get.

Dear friends and all muslim bloggers pray for me to complete my study InsyaAllah..Allah knows best...

Monday, 20 April 2015

Oreo Si Kucing Balik

Setelah hampir seharian menghilang..finally Oreo balik..pukul 10 malam Sya bagi tau Oreo dah balik.

Happynya aku...memang kelihatan kurus sangat. Makanan yang Sya bagi makan semua di habiskan...

Cuma yang aku tak faham kenapa Kecik macam tak kenal anak dia...mungkin sebab bau badan dia dah berubah selepas sehari menghilang...

Setiap kali Oreo cuba untuk menyusu dia akan marah dan mencakar pas tu terus mengelak..

Agak terkilan jugak aku tengok..Tak tahu sama ada perlu diasingkan atau tidak buat sementara waktu atau biarkan dia rapat secara semulajadi....

Cuma aku takut bahayakan nyawa dia kalau Kecik betul betul naik angin..

Sunday, 19 April 2015

Oreo dan Grey

Oreo Hilang

Hari ni 19.04.2015 aku telah kehilangan Oreo kucing aku yang berusia 2 bulan 18 hari..sedih dan sebak rasanya...puas aku mencari tak jumpa. Silap aku juga tak teringat nak check dulu kereta sebelum keluar.  Biasa aku akan pastikan kucing kucing aku keluar dari bawah kereta tempat diaorang melepak..aduhaii..rasa tak lengkap bila tengok kembarnya yang lagi dua ekor dirumah macam mencari cari Oreo. Kebiasaannya Grey dan Cloud memang suka mengikut Oreo sebab dia yang paling berani. Kalau Oreo keluar dari pagar baru Grey dan  Cloud akan ikut..hari ni nampak semua macam suram.

Ibu diaorang sikecik seolah mencari cari anaknya yang tak cukup seekor. Merata aku mencari sampai kekedai makan bertanya orang. Tapi semua kata tak nampak.

Aku doakan semoga Oreo selamat dan tidak dianiaya sesiapa atau disakiti binatang lain atau kucing dewasa yang lain.. Sedih betul sebab aku yang menunggu saat dia dilahirkan..aku yang menjaganya hampir 3 bulan ni...hari ni dia sakit mata dan aku dah sapukan ubat mata supaya cepat sembuh.

Semoga Allah melindunginya dari bahaya..aku doakan semoga dia kembali kepangkuan aku..dengan selamat...InsyaAllah...

Wednesday, 15 April 2015

Tawaran IPTS Sya

Alhamdulillah masih dipanjangkan umur untuk menulis di blog ni...hari ni nak berkongsi pengalaman mengenai pengalaman anak pertama aku yang telah memperolehi keputusan SPM 2014 pada Mac 2015..
Alhamdulillah aku bersyukur bila result SPM Sya keluar. Walaupun tidaklah secemerlang mana tapi cukup untuk beliau meneruskan pengajian ke peringkat yang lebih tinggi

Sebagai bapa akulah diantara orang yang paling risau memikirkan tempat untuk anak sulung aku ni sambung belajar. Apa sahaja yang aku tau akan aku mohon baik IPTA melalui UPU ataupun IPTS.

Diantara IPTS yang aku mohon MMU, UNIKL, KPTM, KUIS, KUISAS, UNICAM, IPB dan banyak lagi. Sampai macam tu sekali sebab ni pengalaman pertama aku untuk anak sulung. Semua IPTS tu aku buat research.

Setiap IPTS yang ada mempunyai kelebihan dan kekurangan masing masing.  Bila semua permohonan dibuat boleh dikatakan kesemuanya dapat jawapan yang positif dengan penawaran kemasukan...Anak aku lebih meminati IT manakala aku lebih meminati akaun. So bila difikirkan baik aku ikut je minat dia sebab dia yang nak study. Kalau ikut minat aku dah tentu aku akan musnahkan impian dia...

So dalam banyak banyak IPTS anak aku lebih  berminat dengan KUIS. Akupun setuju je...bagi aku KUIS tak kurang hebatnya terutama kepada pelajar muslim sebab disitu bukan sahaja pelajar akan memperolehi segulung ijazah tapi KUIS amat menitik beratkan sahsiah pelajar muslim.

Jadi buat masa ni aku masih kekal sepakat dengan anak aku dan isteri untuk ke KUIS. IPTA UPU masih belum ada keputusan . Kalau pilihan anak berubah aku akan terima jelah untuk masa depan dia sendiri. So pada sesapa nak apply KUIS boleh ke website KUIS http://www.kuis.edu.my